My bf of 4 years has being treating me badly lately. He has being me blaming for all his problems. When I tell him the truth he assumes that I am always lying in which I am not, he wants to be in the loop, he thinks that I am retarded in which I am not and his behavior has being turning me off. He acts fake with other people by making it seem everything is good but it is not. Recently we went to a trip to New Mexico he says he was really tired and he was gonna go to bed early in this case he did not he choose to hangout with his cousin. Then he complains about me doing the opposite all the time but he does. Going forward, my birthday was on Friday he ruined he was cranky, moody and snappy. So today we were suppose to celebrate my birthday today since his dad worked and couldn’t get off from work on Friday. So this was a last minute happen out of the blue my boyfriend blames me for not telling him nothing and accuses me of opening my mouth. So his mom made a last minute thing she took me to get my phone fix and now he is having a huge fit saying a lot of mess up things to me. Making remarks to me like “your already fat stupid and now won’t listen what my use for u” and “… you retarded ass fuck” … I lost my for you in this moment” plus you are a s*d bh. I don’t like you cause you’re Mexican. I am multiracial-. I am hurt on what he said about me it hurt my feelings. I go out of my way for him to be treating me like this.. he acting all controlling,arrogant, belittling and etc