I broke up with my girlfriend in Nov 2021. She was too clingy and she became too attached too quickly. When she said something unforgettable I broke up with her and blocked her from every channel (or I thought so)

In February 2023 I got a follow request on insta from an anonymous account which had the name of one of my public Spotify playlists and had the cover image of that playlist as their profile pic. The bio said “I know the meaning of this”

I immediately got interested (someone was stalking my Spotify and thought I made a playlist about them) but also terrified and I had a solid guess about who it was.

It was my ex girlfriend, she said she still loved me and kept stalking my Spotify account (I forgot to block her there) and she claims I still think about her too (which is obviously false)

I explained myself, told her the playlist means nothing, and also she should be seeing a therapist because this wasn’t a normal behavior.

She said if we could at least be friends but I rejected her, told her “I’m sorry about what you’re going through and hope you make it but I don’t wanna hear from you again” and after saying goodbyes I blocked her.

I was in love with another girl around that time and few weeks after the interaction with my ex things got awfully bad with that girl and we stopped talking. That heartache was so painful and it still hurts to this day, which is a span over almost 2 years

I now understand what my ex felt (except I dont stalk anyone) and I feel terrible about it. I wouldn’t want my biggest enemy to feel what I feel but a girl who I once loved felt those about me.

Also my aunt and female cousin both commented that I was afraid of commitment and I did her bad

Tldr; after not speaking for over 2 years my stalking ex told me she still loves me but I rejected both her dating and friendship offer.

Note: English isn’t my first language, tell if I said something confusing and I will try to reply