I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years when we first got together she promised me a date that I will never forget. I would bring it up consistently throughout our relationship. Come December we broke it off because I felt sexually deprived for extended periods of time (we lived together and once in 2 weeks after I brought this to be an issue up multiple times). We decided to give it another shot after about a month apart and things were better she did not move in with me because we decided we needed space however the only times I would see her is when she needed to do her laundry at my place or if we were going out on dates. I expressed how I'm feeling used and I don't feel appreciated it would be nice to be taken out on a date for once. Her excuse was how could I be expected to be taken out on a date when she's only giving me 80% until I earn her wifey duties again.