I [31F] am a Muslim hijabi Somali woman and got married to a Muslim Cambodian man [34M] back in 2021. The first few months were amazing. Then I noticed he became more distant and less affectionate and was always texting and very secretive when it came to his phone. Anytime I would pass by him, he would quickly try and hide his phone. He also stopped showing effort and kind of used me only when he wanted to fulfill his sexual desires. After almost 2 years together, I couldn’t take it anymore, and I decided to go back to my hometown but before that I secretly peeked over his phone when he thought I wasn’t looking. He was snapping the girl selfies of himself, making the duck face, and she was snapping him back, provocative photos of herself. The girl looks to be about 25 years old a lot younger than the both of us. I don’t know how he found her, but I don’t think she is from here. Seems like he found her on social media or some kind of dating app I was so heartbroken and disgusted so I decided to leave and find my own person before I left I matched with a handsome man who was actually good looking, and we started chatting and getting to know each other while I was still living with my husband he is what gave me the strength to finally leave as he explained that I don’t deserve the treatment, my then husband was giving me. So I left and we got divorced. A couple of months later now I hear that my ex has intentions of marrying this younger girl who doesn’t even wear a hijab. They were also meeting up and engaging in intercourse several times. I don’t know what he sees in her sure she may be cute and all,but that’s probably all she has going for her. If anything I feel like she has no class and is not modest like I am so I cannot understand what he sees in her and how he could not appreciate what he had. She doesn’t wear a hijab and let him touch her before marriage. And has been sending my husband lewd photos of herself. The only thing I can think of is, she probably is a pick me girl who wants to cook for her husband because I hated cooking for mine since he never showed any effort. I didn’t want to cook for him at all. I didn’t wanna do anything for him. I just did what I needed to for myself. In a marriage, both partners have to work together why do the women always have to sacrifice and the men do absolutely nothing to contribute? I was working and making my own money. I sacrificed everything for him and moved out of state to be with him. It’s not like he was supporting me financially. So I decided to do something really really petty. I made a TikTok about the situation and it blew up and I may have shared the girl’s ig handle. Now she is getting death threats and is apparently afraid to leave her home. My ex has also been getting weird messages, but it’s not nearly as bad as her apparently since she is labeled as the homewrecker as she is. My ex is blaming me for everything. So AITAH??