Hey everyone. 22F here. Guy i was seeing suddenly ghosted me out of nowhere despite us having a good connection. Saw my messages and calls and ignored them for a while. We called a few days ago and he told me its because he "shuts down" and needs time alone and withdraws from everyone basically. He cant hold a serious relationship.

Today i saw him post about first date ideas for a new girl hes been talking to "for a while". I think the reason he ghosted was because he met someone knew. Here comes the eff up, i was so upset seeing the post, i cried and felt betrayed even tho we weren't dating and he doesnt owe me anything.

I then did the worst thing i could do. I called him. I tried my best to sound non chalant. Asked him if what i saw was real. He asked me if im stalking him lol. Then told me he started talking to her after he stopped talking to me despite his "shut down" and that its just a hook up. I asked him why hes planning a date then and putting that much effort in, he said to impress her. I felt awful. After the call he texted me that he still wants to hook up with me if im down. And even tho i said no. He kept saying how ill never experience anything like what he'll do to me.

I told him his d!ck is probably a p!ckle from how much kitty its been dipped in. I guess i overreacted because he got offended and said i sl*t shamed him. AITAH ? I just feel so upset and i dont even know why.