I (15F) am in a program for therapy with many other girls ans boys. There was this one boy specifically that I was talking to and feeling a connection with. But this other girl (16-17F) had conflict with me and told everyone there that she has anger issues and will lash out which is fine I get it but, I felt like she took it to for this time. I was talking to this guy and I told her that I felt a connection and that he helps me out. Later that week she told me that she made out with him and that they are dating. I was angry but put my emotions to the side and won't let this man be a problem. Every Monday we have a group to talk about needs and wants for the program and I aperrently said something that made her mad. I guess I said that "I dont really like this staff memeber but thats just me", that made her mad and told trash about me infornt of everyone. She said that I am so rude and always has a bitchy attitude and all my friends are fake (she was cussing me out), she said more but if I wrote that down I won't be able to post this. I started to cry infornt of everyone which made them uncomfortable, the group ended and I started to calm down. A few weeks later she apologized to me saying "oh I was just high as he11 that day my bad", and out of rage I called her a bich for using that as an excuse for was she treated me and what she did to me. Was I the AH? I am just very curious what should've I've done.