I’ve been best friends with this guy for 2 years. We met early in college, we were each other's "day-ones" and he always helped me a lot—gave me rides, hung out with me, and was there when I needed someone. I don’t have a lot of friends, and he was my closest one. Initially after we met, we also met 2 other guys. I didn't really like them but my buddy got close to both of them and we 4 all hung out quite often.

About 2 months ago, out of nowhere, he started avoiding me. Right the day before we were hanging out and having a good time. But basically, he started avoiding and limiting his interaction with me including replying to my texts, stopped answering my calls, and wouldn’t hang out. he would always say he is busy but on snap-chat I would see him hang out with other 2 guys. I asked if I did something wrong, and he said no. I confronted him saying he been acting weird all this while but he played it dumb and said he didn't know. Then I left all the group chats I was in with these guys since no one out of them talked to me. Last night I texted him on discord and texted him, apologizing, asking for a chance if I did something wrong, but no response from him. In-fact, he removed me from his Instagram and unfriended me on discord.

One of those 2 guys got mad at me over a silly thing—me sending Instagram reels too often. He blocked from Instagram over that, and ever since that happened, my best friend slowly started drifting away from me too. I feel like maybe he got influenced by them, but I’m not sure. I have a feeling both of them are filling his ears against me or something (I might be wrong) because the guy who got mad over reels is that kind of person.

He still hangs out with our mutual friends (those 2 guys) like nothing happened. I’ve tried reaching out several times, but he doesn’t respond anymore. It’s been over 2 months, and I feel really alone and confused. I have no friends except him. I love him, as a bro. The other 2 guys they won't take my calls either.

I don’t want to bother him if he wants space, but I just want closure or to understand what happened. What should I do? I DON'T KNOW WHAT I DID TO DESERVE THIS!

I need help. please. I want him back :(