i (18f) currently in college . i met anna my best friend till now and we became really close in a very short time . and then i met jessica (another girl in our class) , and we had similar music taste and we got pretty close . so i made the great move of becoming a trio with them . from the end of sem1 to start of sem2 , everything was so good between us . we hung out a lot and got really close . everything changed when anna got a little infactuation on a guy , lets name him evan . it was not a crush just a infactuation she says . it was all so cute until jessica asked us if she can go and talk to him while he was standing like 3 ft away talking to a mutual friend . anna obviously refused but jessica still did . oh boy , she did not just talk , se got his number , ig acc , snap acc , and even took a photo with him and was showing it to our mutual friend who called her desperate . we decided to confront jessica about it . and yknow what she said "theres no such thing as girl code , its all insta manipulating people , its all just propaganda" (i was gagged). and then they were texting all the time , hanging out infront of us . and then jessica had the audacity to tell anna that she was getting attached to evan ,mind you she has bf already . and then jessica and her bf broke up because he didnt like the fact that she was hitting on her friends crush . and then the trio broke down . but then jessica has the audacity to evan that anna was fucking stalking him , like tf. and then thats when we decided to cut her off completely and she had the audacity to call us selfish and we are the "typical duo' dont know what that mean . now shes going around telling people that she broke up with her bf but she still very much loves him and how terrible we were as friends . mind you she started hanging out with another gang of friends after we confronted for the second time . Now tell me , am i really the ahole??

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she also asked me if she can go and talk to my crush just a day before she went and talked to evan . thank god we stopped her at that time but we were not able to stop her this time.