Just got into an hour long argument over this with my boyfriend of two years. He’s saying I shouldn’t let anyone be close to me, and that I’ve never done karaoke with him before. He doesn’t allow me to go to bars or anything of the sort so he be never had the opportunity to do this with him.

I, 21F went out to a bar with an old group of high school friends. We haven’t seen each other in about 5 years or so. We’re a few shots in and decide to do karaoke. This is my first time ever being at a bar and doing karaoke, so I’m excited. I’m in the middle of two friends, one male 22 I think and one female 22. We’re singing “I want it that way” and people start turning their flashes on and swaying. So I reach my hand out to do the sway and sing motion, like in movies and stuff. He puts his hand on my lower back instead for a brief moment. I didn’t think anything of it as we were swaying and singing. For the rest of the night me and him barely spoke to each other as we were just hanging out as one big group. I don’t know if I’m in the wrong or what I should do here.