For background my bsf is dating my ex friend kevin (fake name) and kevin decided to post shit abt me on the internet, but not naming me, such as "you may have had him once but i have him now" which is bs cause my bsf is closer to me than him. Anyways, i then posted smth on the lines of "at least i didnt talk shit abt you on the internet" on a vid. Also, kevin always use to use my insecurities against me such as when one of my closest friends told me to.... long story short, we made up and then she told me that i was to stressful wtv. Then i had a massive insecurity abt that for ages and kevin just told me loads of times that i was stressful. But anyways idk if im tah for retaliating even if i didnt name either so AITAH?