📝 AITAH for ending things after my girlfriend said “WHATEVER hiro!” and blocked me

By Distinct_Crow_9734 • Score: 2 • April 6, 2025 12:35 AM


so this was after the thing that happened in my last post and it just now happened, okay so my girlfriend was like “I'm really uncomfortable with Enzo. And to be honest, i'm upset that you as my boyfriend is completely disregarding the fact he disrespected me..y'know? (which was completely incorrect because i did say he was in the wrong and even forwarded the message where i said that he was wrong) I feel dissapointed that you didn't defend me the slightest (i was barely present in their argument because i was AFK) and even left (because she added someone we’re both uncomfortable with into the group chat) when he asked you to.” and i said “i did acknowledge that he was wrong, i just didn’t agree with it beig seen as “abusive”, i left when he asked because i don’t like kai at all and was uncomfy being in a gc with someone who thinks me and enzo are the same, as far as the not defending goes i simply didn’t know what to say and/or went afk” then she denied that i acknowledged he was wrong and i forwarded where i said he was wrong and she told me kai didn’t even think we’re the same and i said at the time i didn’t know and then she had her discord status questioning my love for her so i was like “i don’t understand your status i “dont love you” for not believing that someone disrepsecting you because yoy disrespected them and refusing to respect you until you respect them is abuse? for not knowing what to say? for leaving a gc?” then she accused me of villianizing her and when i denied she was like “WHATEVER hiro” and she literally blocked me so i interpreted it as her wanting to end things so i did and i told my friend who WANTED us to end things and she made me feel guilty for ending things am i wrong?

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