📝 AITAH for exposing my gf's friends for who they really are after the way they talked and treated her publicly?

By Traditional-Area-648 • Score: 4 • April 11, 2025 7:29 PM


Not an English speaker.

I will try to make this as short as i can cause right now i don't have that much time.

So i know my gf (Kat which full name is Katarina) since a month and 3 days. We immediatly clicked but the thing of our relathionship is that she never dated before me and on the other side due to my syndromes and issues i'm cold, calculative and extremely "prepared" for cleaning, order and maximum efficiency in all aspects of my life.(I have only 1 ex and it lasted 1 month because she cheated on me with one of my friends so we broke up immediatly)

To describe Kat i'm gonna tell you how she is in the maximum moment of rage (with her own words) "how dare you use such tone with me? Why you are using bad words with me? There is no need to be so cruel and use such cruel words".(to me she is the living example of the "human golden retriver" hahahah)

I know Kat's friends since just a few weeks and unfortunetly i didn't had a good impression.(they are both female) I still don't understand how Kat left slide extremely hurtful and disrespectful comments but when they said stuff like "well you got lucky Kat with him because no one else would tolerate your lab's bullshit". (Kat works in a pharmaceutical lab)

But all this a part the issue is this: a week ago she was victim of a terrible accident. A driver hit her while she was walking on a pedestrian crossing and run away (the driver is still no way to be found) and unfortunetly Kat can't walk anymore. I'm doing my best to support her in any possible way, a part emotionally cause it's a thing i'm incapable of, and just today she is feeling better and finally i saw that gorgeous smile again that lights up a room.

The main issue of this post is that 2 days ago finally her so called "friends" went to see her at the hospital and when they arrived i was there already working on PC while she was sleeping a bit. And here starts the drama. After a few minutes randomly they both looked at her in those conditions and one of them Mik (which full name is Mikaela) started with hurtful comments like i wasn't even there to listen "well i'm sorry for her but i think right now in this conditions no person in the world wants to be with a burden like her" and more comments like this. So 1 time and i let it slide, 2 times, 3 times but at the fourth i didn't. I just told them that Kat nedeed to rest and sleep so it was better for us to give her some space and while walking them out i started recording the conversation.

Now: i'm not joking, they started to flirt with me and for real to convince me to break up with her because "come on, have you looked at her? Who is so fucked up to be with her?". If i wasn't recording those few minutes i couldn't believe it! So after a few minutes i didn't got angry, didn't yelled, didn't raised my voice but just said "let me understand, you want me to break up with Kat now when she needs me the most and start dating one of you that are her friends since 15 years because you are "normal" not like Kat that at this point is a burden? Are you for real? You are crazy or just some cheap gold diggers?". Well my reply didn't amused them and one of them( Mik) between other non sense stuff "so? What's wrong? You just trade a pathetic cripple for a normal girl. You are a billionaire so you wouldn't have any problem taking care of me". (I'm not a billionaire just having a comfortable life thanks to work and investments)

At this point, always coldly, I told them that it was better for them to leave before i call security and they stormed out. The thing i wasn't expecting was that on their way out Kat's parents were arriving and they saw both of them saying something. So when i got back in Kat's room i noticed she was awake and asked me what was all that noise and i just told her that she lost 2 friends but bought more happiness and mental sanity and i explained her what happened and palyed the audio i was recording. She was in desbelief but then thanked me cause due to her character she couldn't do it by herself. I told this her parents too and their response? "we told Kat to stop hanging out with those 2 10 years ago but she never listened once". And the "catch" is that since i'm not an idiot and i know by myself how this things goes i posted the audio on ig with the caption "and you call this 2 friends?".

Well, apparently i was faster than them because when they made a vague post about toxic masculinity, toxic boyfriends and all this type of bs people already heard my recording and the comments under that post weren't excatly "kind" but otherwise until they had to remove it.

Like a cliché in this 2 days i'm recieving calls and texts from both of them variating between fury "who the fuck are you to meddle in our relathionship with Kat?" and a mix of desperation and pleading "please remove the audio, we understood and will never bother her again".

Kat, her parents and other Kat's friends are on my side while many people under those posts are telling me that it wasn't my business so i shouldn't have recorded the conversation.

So AITAH for exposing them publicly?

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