My 4 friends (23f)L (23f)V (21f)G (22m)J and J's brother (18m)S, and myself (24m)B went to an amusement park.

G is dating J. L V G all live together. J lives with S. B lives by myself.

I am the only that can drive us there as I was the only one that had a driver's license and a car, it was a 2 hour long drive to get there. We each had paid for our own tickets to get in, and decided we'd each take turns paying for the games, I paid for everyone on the first game, but when it wasn't my turn to pay none of them would pay for me to pay along side them. When J's brother S wanted to play a solo game, he came up to me and asked me for money to play it. I was confused on why S was asking me and not his brother J, but figured his brother J was holding his money and S just couldn't find J. I asked S where his money was, S told me that he hadn't brought any, I then asked why he didn't bring any and he said cause he didn't have a job. I told S that if he wanted to stop asking people for money he should get a job, I inevitably gave him a $5 so he could go play the game.

Later on a few of the rides that we were all on S kept yelling out p*nis at the top of his lungs, the first time it was funny, but after the umpteenth time I told him that he needed to stop, as he could have us kicked out by yelling that out in front of kids and families.

On the way home I stopped to get fuel but no one offered to help. We then stopped to get some food as we were all hungry, so we stopped at a pizza place, we ordered 2 pies which I paid for. After that I dropped them all home, almost a week had gone by without me hearing from any of them, so I called V up and jokingly asked if they had been avoiding me, and I was surprised when V L and G all saying that they were deciding if they still wanted to be friends with with me after I had been so rude to S and how I can't stop talking about work or money. And that it makes V L and G feel bad since they are having a hard time paying their rent each month, even though all 3 of them work and their rent was $1200. But that I never complained about not having money issues even though I have a vehicle and my rent is $500 more then theirs.

I figured I'd give them a day or 2 then we could sit down and talk about what's been going on, like how they've been struggling, and like how even though I don't bring it up, I do have money issues from time to time. But I had gotten a call from my mom telling me my favorite uncle who i had been very close to had overdosed and was now dead. I tried calling my friends but no one would answer, so I sent them a text in the group chat saying my uncle had passed and that I didn't want to be alone at the moment. I got a single text from only V a few hours later saying "hope he gets better soon". A few days later G texts me, I'm thinking: "oh! Maybe she never saw my text about my uncle passing and now she's going to say something that could lift my spirits in anyway." Nope, she asked me if I could help them move, since it would be cheaper to use my truck instead of hiring a moving company.

So AITAH?