Hello I'm (17f) and my sister (21f) had a baby at the same time last year. I had mines a month before her but before I had my baby I was all alone and i did everything by myself with no to little advice. I worked until i was 39 weeks and 5 days at a high Maintenace food service job. Yes i got pregnant young but one thing no one can say i am is a bad mom. I walked almost 3 hours just to go to my ultrasound appointment. Some time worked even 12 hours on my feet with only 30 min break. I lived in a trailer full of bugs, ants crawling all over me, only eating once a day which was when i go to work. No my son father is not in the picture. Yes that was the only option to live at when i was pregnant. When i was about 38 weeks i saved enough to get my own place before the baby came. I bought everything for him my son literally have everything he can ask for.

This is where tiktok comes in, i learnt everything, From how to make a bottle properly to what to do if my kid stopped breathing in the middle of the night or whenever. I learnt everything i know and im a good mom and my mom tells me all the time how an amazing mom i am.

This is where my sister come in. She leaves her kid with random people, she Dontknow u need to match the formula with the amount of water you used until she saw me do it. She treats my house like a Walmart. She tries to take my kids clothes and even at some point will ask for his formula because in her terms her money goes to something else FYI weed and alcohol. She one time left her baby with her friend and didnt come back until 2 days later after her friend blew my andher phone up. Her son has had the same rash for 4 months and she stopped taking her son to his pedi appointments because she said they aren't necessary and useless and told me i should stop bringing my son. Like wtf

The other day we got into a argument because she came into my house smelling like weed and i told her "this is a Christian household and not even that, this is where my 5-month-old lives and you will not treat like a club house." We got into a argument and she told me " you're not even a real mom, you learnt everything from TikTok". We were going back and forward until she left. My mom told me it's my home and i had the right to feel the way i did but she has her friends texting me telling me other wise.

So AITAH?