The gist of it: I told an OP "YTA" and explained why nicely (it was a fight between a mom and her college aged daughter over how someone else could perceive something that her daughter said, even thought the other person didn't complain or say anything. And also the fight was started when she knew her daughter was in line for a show she was looking forward to). But I ended it with "You should tell your daughter I'm sorry for being a Karen, you did nothing wrong" which I admit was not nice, but also not the craziest thing ever said.

I come back on reddit like 3 hours later and see my comment is deleted for community violations. Then I look at the thread and see OP is getting downvoted for basically arguing with everyone who is saying YTA (it was actually kind of split between AH and NTA). And I see comments here and there are deleted. All under the YTA posts. I also see OP has posted an update stating that her daughter apologized to her.

In my mind at this point I'm certain I'm right about this human being. I see another poster ask OP "why did you ask this question on reddit if you don't want to listen to anyone who says you might be wrong and instead argue with everyone?". I reply to that guy saying "yeah, I had a comment deleted for using the "K word" so clearly this person is complaining to mods as well. I bet she couldn't type fast enough to let us all know she won and her daughter apologized first". Next thing I know, I'm banned.

Prior to this I'd never had a comment deleted and was a fairly active contributor. At that point I was pissed and argued with mods and got permanently banned. So AITAH?