By Classic-Scientist-63 • Score: 0 • April 20, 2025 7:07 PM
So me (15F at the time) him (19M) worked together at a summer job last year. During the job he was giving me small signals of interest, like the first time we walked passed each other in the hallway at lunch he winked at me. I thought it was a bit weird cuz he was 19 but i was kind of flattered cuz I thought he was kinda cute. I had a friend at work (17F) who said that i should avoid him because it was weird that he was acting like this towards a minor. The week later we started to become friends sort of because we had been assigned tasks to do together at work. We had never had contact outside of work at this point. He even started to make my lunch everyday so I didn’t have to. And it wasn’t helping that all out coworkers were “shipping” us and jokingly encouraging it. BUT also i think that the only person who knew how old i was, was the girl who I was friendly with. And the reason I think this is because I look older than my age (i have been mistaken as a 21 year old multiple times). After working together for about 2 weeks, and the job was only 3 weeks, we were working and he asked how old I am and i said “guess” because its always fun to see how old people think I am. He said 17 then i said that i was 15 and he was shocked. I asked why he thought i was older and he said “because u have the body of a 17 year old not a 15 year old”. I was shocked. Then he continued, ”and u have a babyface so its hard to know”. I was a bit stunned but I understood cuz it goes in my family. My mom had the same problem when younger but now she is always assumed to be younger, good for me ig?🤷🏼‍♀️.Fast forward to the last day of work. We were all getting driven to the office after working at another location and the car was full (im the only girl at the time) and they all were full grown men and him, 19, me 15. I then had to sit in his lap because the car was full. Then i was stunned when one of the men i was working with flirted with me, but thats for another time. Later i when going to the subway to go home he walked me there. And as i had thought about it, i walked up to him before going and asked for his number. He said yes and took my phone to type it in. I was exited. Then the day efter we meet for the first time outside of work. We went by the office because we both forgot things there. We then went out almost everyday, when he didn’t have work. We called ft everyday and it was nice. We were talking about our future and everything. It was really romantic. We shared headphones in the subway, watched birds and went on walks in the city. But i had this voice inside of me that became louder after a while that this wasn’t right. He was slowly hinting towards more sexual stuff that I wasn’t comfortable with because i was and still am a virgin, like on FaceTime he would find small ways to be provocative. Like he was always saying that i’m “more mature for my age” ,I get that he is 19 and all but i just wasn’t ready. We also were full on making out in public, that wasn’t my thing AT ALL because i’m more of a hopeless romantic. So one day I decided to block him everywhere and try to forget him. I got really bad feelings afterwards because it was so rude and heartless of me. I have always been like this. Self sabotage is what i always do. Sometimes i catch myself regretting this decision. AITAH???
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