Hi so I 22F has been seeing my boyfriend 22M for past 6 months, its an okay relationship honestly with a few fights here and there and I was aware of his lack of emotional intelligence but recently my father passed away he had tried being there for me and gave me an outlook on life now and how to take things, been supportive a few days but after that I see less and less support from him. I had told him a couple of times that this relationship is going to be difficult im going through alot and he told me not to be stupid and essentially that he is here for me. He does try to cheer me up if he sees im low or frustrated but a couple of times my grief has manifested itself into frustration leading me shut people off which he didn't respond well too knowing why i was being the way i was being. Losing my father has changed my brain chemistry and with each passing day i feel like I lose a piece of me as i wake up without my dad in my life. I had been taking over his business right after his death which was by the way not even a month ago. Im an only child with a mother to take care of and a business to run that i know nothing about right now. I am on a business trip and had been feeling hollower than ever and I was talking to him and he sensed i was low, he asked whats up and I tried to tell him that I am frustrated and annoyed and reassured him too that I do love him but after a while he just started giving me dry replies when called out he denied and said "I am listening, isnt this what you wanted" I tried explaining to him but mid way I realised i dont have the energy to communicate such a basic thing. I told him he doesn't have to do this and that i understand because I know being with someone going through a rut is very difficult he didn't respond to any of that and left me on read, I just left a text saying "thats real considerate of you, hit me up if you want to talk and we can take this relationship mechanically, the way you like it" and I offloaded the app off my phone and I mean to keep it that way for a good week or so. Am I the A-hole?