I, (F) and my ex (M) were kind of complicated. I always thought of him as a friend, and I was never physically attracted to him either. he had a nice personality, one that could make you like him just a bit. Anyways, the other day my best friend (F) started talking about him, saying how it was a terrible move to ghost him. I tried to explain how even if he was nice, everything felt rushed. She was the reason we were together, after all. The early summer previously I said that I might like him but I dont know yet, but she told him to confess. I know this makes me sound like a shitty person, but I accepted because I felt bad. Every time id try to talk to him in person, his friends would go out of their way to in a way harass me, calling me names and just generally being a dick. Though, when I told him about it, he said nothing and did nothing too. That was what drew me over the line. After that, I ghosted him. Can't get harassed if I don't talk to him, right? Even the following school year, his friends would harass me for the same reason, accusing me of cheating, and asking me why I broke up with him. (he broke up with me and I was hanging out with an openly gay guy.) Now im a little insecure because my best friend knows its a sensitive topic for me, but she still brings it up and tells me I screwed up. Im also a little concerned that they're talking behind my back, because he sent her screenshots of our messages. When she showed me, she then said she was uncomfortable. Though I know it wasn't nice to ghost him, I've tried talking to him about the harassment issue several times only to get completely ignored. Honestly, I feel like I had a valid reason, but please tell me if im wrong.