I (23F) ghosted two friends (23F&25M) last year when they got together. It all started two years ago when i had recently reconnected with an old friend/situationship(Martin) at a book store … he was passing by picking up a doordash order for the near by cafe and i was picking up a book when we ran into each other and caught up … We had agreed to go get drinks and from that night on we were best friends . We had become so close that we moved in together and he paid for everything i wanted as at the time i had lost my job and was in school for marketing. I will admit he tried multiple times to be with me but honestly i knew we were not meant to be . Our last time trying i had voice wanting to be exclusive and he could not agree so i wasn’t not willing to try again . As we continued to get closer i brought multiple of my friends around so the friend group can grown… one of those being Janet(23f). I had known janet since high school .anways… in the beginning i would always ask her what i should do with martin bcs i genuinely did not know if i should give him an other chance and she would always give me advice to choose someone different …one day i start noticing martin acting more hyper when i mentioned i had invited janet so i openly asked if they were talking and he said yes was not sure if he should because he still had feelings for me ( he had asked me out a week prior) i had encouraged him to continue to talk to her and even let him in on her favorite things . Two days later we all go to the club and i get obliterated and Martin is driving me back home with janet in the car . As im knocked out janet takes some very embarrassing pictures of me asleep. I had no idea until the next morning when she sent them to me and i asked her not to send them to anyone and she reassured me she wouldn’t saying “ if that was me i would hate if people had them “ i thanked her and went about my day … That same day i met up with martin and he asked me to look at some messages on his phone and as i am checking i she janet’s name chat has my name in it… so i click it. I find out that she sent the pictures of me drunk to Martin ! i don’t say anything and wait until later when i know we will all hang out. When we the 3 of us meet up we are in his car on the way to get food and i ask to change the song . I go to their chat and i say “oh she sent you these” out loud and turn around and ask her “ you sent him these ? “ she doesn’t say anything and just puts her hood on and gets on her phone . We never spoke about that again and we never really hung out again like that or talked again. Martin eventually asked her out. I started to feel very uncomfortable when i would ask to hang out and i would invite the both of them and she would never show up … and when she did she was bad mouthing her best friend ( made me wonder what was said behind my back ) . Eventually i slowly stop talking to Martin and only see him on birthdays. Recently i’ve noticed her reposting stuff on tik tok talking about matin following different girls on social media but he is the type to only follow his mother his gf and his friends… and the only other female he has that is not her is me … she also posted about losing best friends over dumb stuff but she never reached out to me to solve out issue … not even to apologize… among other things she has done … I feel like she has this secret anger towards me when all i did was rooted for her . I had rejected martin multiple times and encouraged them to get together… i have to see them in a few days at a friends wedding in california… and am wondering if i should apologize or just flat out ignore them ?? I will admit i miss the friendship sometimes but i just felt like i was being kicked out and kinda bullied for being his best friend while she was trying to get with him … Sooooooo aitah?