📝 AITAH For going off on my doctor

By Necessary_Weird3912 • Score: 1 • April 26, 2025 5:12 AM


Hello everyone I am in need of some serious advice right now I 20F Found out I was pregnant march 7th with an at home test but after going to my ob was confirmed a week after that I started bleeding not much but enough to make me scared my ob told me it was normal but if I wanted to I can go to the er to get checked and that’s what I did after an emergency ultrasound they told me everything was just fine but it was still a bit early to see anything and to follow up with my ob very soon just to make sure now I don’t know what you guys might have but down where I stay we have a app called MyChart and we use the to communicate and contact with our doctor personal I have called and sent a message multiple times with no response and when I did finally get in she did any ultrasound and said everything was fine so I believed her well not long after that i started bleeding again I called my doctor and she told me I was having a miscarriage and if I didn’t fill up a pad in an hour or two I should be fine I asked her multiple times could she possibly get me in to see me because I felt very off and but was told she doesn’t have any openings

Witch bring me to now for the pass few days i have been off as in mood swings not really wanting to eat and sleeping more I brush it off as me starting my period soon as those are the normal symptoms I have before hand I’ve talk to my mom who’s also a nurse about it and while talk my sister overheard us and made a joke something along the lines of maybe you didn’t have a miscarriage we all laughed at the joke two days later I started to feel really sick while in the shower I had to rush out I called my doctor once again and ask for an appointment but the only thing I was told was it was acid reflex and she sent over some pills and some for the nausea after not being able to shake what my sister said I decided to take a test and it came back positive not wanting to believe it I took 4 more and each one came back positive I’m sitting here lost and now confused

As if right now I text my doctor on MyChart going off on her for pushing my concerns to the side as if they didn’t matter and she had other things to do I would like to also note I did see her one other time before the test and she also said she didn’t believe I was so my next question is has this ever happened to you before and how did you handle it what should my next steps be

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