Me and my brother get along perfectly and he’s my best friend. But it’s hard for me to keep a job in the state I live in. I have borderline personality disorder so it’s hard for me to keep a job. My brother doesn’t understand that it is a real thing and messes with my head. He never downs me or anything but it’s hard for me to constantly let him down and I know I do. But I decided to move out with a family member who can help me with these things but I can’t shake the feeling that I’m abandoning my brother. I just feel bad and I haven’t talked to my brother about it yet but idk what to feel