I (Female 14 years old when this happened) had my first boyfriend had my first boyfriend when i was around 14. We had our first real sleepover and I just let him sleep in my bed (I have a 1 person bed) he captured the whole bed and I was really frustrated cuz I slept like 3/4 hours that night plus he kept touching me in places I didn't want yet but I didn't want to ruin the mood. Around a week or 2 later he came over for a sleep over again, I was really tired that day and eventually we watched a movie but he kept touching me and wanting to kiss me and everytime I tried to pull away but he just kept trying. Eventually I explained the situation that I was really tired and just needed my sleep and I asked "would you mind sleeping on a spare mattress I have" he said that he wouldn't mind but i saw at his expression that he hated it, but I knew I had to choose for myself for once (I usually put others before me I have a really hard time putting myself first). Then a day later we texted (like we always did) and I noticed he was texting dry so I asked him what's wrong and he said that he was stressed lately, and that he really looked forward to seeing me but that it turned out to be even more stressful for him, I felt really guilty even though he was touching me when i was hinting for him to stop and I was super tired (and the time before he captured the whole bed) AITAH?