i’m not even sure if I did & am seeking input. im white and my friends are Korean and when we were out at lunch today, I was telling a story about how I had one of the worst massages of my life. Basically, I said that I was at a Korean spa and the lady went to town on my back and that it was super painful. i tried to add levity by saying she had me doing flips in the air basically by having my body contort in different ways. maybe it’s cus I said “i had a message and it sucked. it was a korean message” but like the way I said it? like I added that in their ? and they just seemed offended

AITAH for this?