📝 AITAH for most of my friends being girls?

By PseudoReform • Score: 1 • April 4, 2025 7:01 AM


I (26M) and my GF (24F) have been getting into a few arguments about me having girl friends and how she is not comfortable with that. Let me clarify the situation, I don't hang out with any girl I dont know or meet new girls I have some steady friends that I met over the years. When I say girl friends I mean people that I have been friends with for over 10 years almost since I was a kid. ALL of them I see them like sisters since we grew up together and there has never been any romantic connection between us ever.

I grew up with 5 females(Mom, Grandma, Greatgrandma and 2 younger sisters)in the house and I have always felt more connected and more comfortable around women. I don't like stuff like sports and whatever comes with that that my friends used to do and still do to this day. I of course have male friends as well but the ratio is like 3-1. I don't go out often with them and we rarely go out 1-1 unless something serious has happened that they want to share with me.

To be completely honest my most trusted girl friend is someone I met at a party when I was a kid (At 15) which I made out with once during that party. Over the years it evolved into a very strong friendship and there was never anything romantic about it ever again. We evolved to have completely different tastes in our romantic partners and we grew very close because we had very good understanding of each other's minds. Mind you this girl is the one she has the less problem with ( I really don't get women).

So yeah, most of my friends are girls because I feel like I have more common things to do, discuss with women. I have introduced my GF to all of them in order for her to feel more comfortable. All of my girl friends are in relationships they are not party girls and are all very decent and good and stable people. They never have suggested anything bad for me, and they really like my GF. Most of the time I go out with them I don't invite her because I rarely see them (3-4 times a year) and we usually want to catch up and share very private things.

AITAH?

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