Feedback appreciated, aitah for not attending my sil gender reveal? I, 17 weeks pregnant, received devastating news about our baby girl. Received the news one week ago today that she is expected to pass within the next few weeks due to multiple issues. My sil, 10 weeks pregnant, invited me Thursday to a gender reveal on Saturday. This invite was literally texted to me 2 hours after she and husband told me that they were going to wait out of respect to our situation. Now, fil told my husband that "it's not a good look" that we missed the reveal. Thanks for reading.