My husband (m47) think I'm unreasonable because i(f33) cried today.

Eddit to clarify: my husband is normally able to do basic household tasks. And do them every week. But I'm the one who does most.

I have injured my right arm and it hurts like hell. I can't use it. It have been 3 days. And I'm on some strong painkillers. They make me dizzy. I just want to sleep and make the pain go away.

I haven't done the dishes or packed out the bags from our Easter holiday. I haven't cleaned the house. I haven't washed the clothes. I haven't emptied the trash.

These things needs to be done, but my husband haven't done any of them. And I can't.

My husband had some friends over yesterday. And I asked him if he could maybe do the dishes before they arrived. He told me he didn't have the time, but they wouldn't mind. I tried to clean them, but it hurt too much to I just hid them in the oven. And cooked dinner on the stove..

I went to work today. But I had to go home early because it hurt too much. I slept for a few hours and woke up past dinnertime.

My husband haven't done anything. The dishes are just pileing in the kitchen, and he hadn't bothered to buy dinner or cook, he had however emptied the bin, and put the garbage bag by the door... it smelled faul. So I took it out. And came back in and just cried. I told him I was sad he couldn't be bothered to do anything around the house while I was sick. And I was stressed out by the house getting dirty, and the workload getting bigger for whenever I would feel just a bit better. I told him it's not fair that tomorrow when I might feel a bit better, but still not okay, that I will have to clean four days of mess, because he didn't do any of the house work while I couldn't. And asked him if he didn't even think of dinner.

He told me, I should have told him, what I needed him to do. And that I was being unreasonable for not communicating my needs and being mad he didn't read my mind.

I don't think I have to communicate basic tasked needs to be done.