By Hour-Mouse5595 • Score: 202 • April 14, 2025 2:55 PM
So, a couple weeks ago I finalized my housing and confirmed my dorm room. I really didn't think much into it, all I cared about is being in this specific building bc it is much newer and has specific amenities in the actual building. This is my first year at the university and I was really struggling to figure out the website so I was only just now able to contact my roommates. They asked me politely if I could drop the room because they had already planned on having one of their friends stay with them. I would have gladly changed rooms however bc this building is nicer, it ended up getting completely booked out early on. I let them know that I would not be dropping the room as I wanted to stay in this building and they started to insult me and call me "rude" and "inconsiderate" for not just dropping the room. I understand their frustration and told them that if it was an issue they could always switch rooms too. They then said they would not switch rooms bc they would have to change buildings and that I should just act like an adult and leave bc none of them want me there. It honestly hurt hearing all of this when I don't see how this is an issue? They made it clear to me that if I don't drop the room then I would not be welcomed. I don't want to drop the room, not even trying to be petty but I had wanted to stay in this building for specific reasons and if I drop the room I will have to stay in a different building that does not the same amenities or perks, AITAH?
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