Me and my ex ended over an argument. I was in the wrong and I take accountability. She blocked me on everything imaginable, I’ve sent her letters before and she unblocked me twice before, the first time was to clarify she wanted to go our separate ways and she didn’t believe I changed that much in a short amount of time. Which is understandable but in the same messages she was trying to “clarify” moving on she also gave me mixed signals by saying this like “AS OF NOW, I don’t want to be together again” “idk how I’m gonna feel later in life or what’s going to be going on” these make me feel as if she’s just blocking her feelings out cause if she was really mad at me she wouldn’t want a future with me ever again. The second time most recently about 3 days ago she unblocked me and reached out because of a repost I made on my tik tok that I guess her friend saw and sent to her. It was guys moving on vs girls and basically calling the girl a hoe. It was a joke tik tok and nobody knew we were dating anyway since we were private for half the time. Only few people knew and I guess that one friend found my account and sent it to her causing her to unblock me and be mad. I calmed her down and said it wasn’t directed towards her I’m sorry I’ll take it down. The convo proceeded very slow and eventually she said “it sucks how after all this your willing to give me what I deserve, but I just can’t accept it” and then she says before I can finish typing “I shouldn’t of texted you” and blocked me again. My dad encouraged me to show up to her job and speak to her in person and if she brushes me off then I just leave. We haven’t spoken in person since the breakup and it seems she still cares about me considering she does read my letters and always gives me the chance to say what I have to say even if she dosent respond back. I’ve also heard it may overwhelm her and create more distance by showing up unannounced. I’m conflicted on what to do right now considering she gives me mixed signals and I was in the wrong 100% it’s my job to show up and make things right and show I care. Is it wrong to constantly try to make things right or is this the right move?