My bad if some things don’t make sense because I’m using text to speech, but I feel like I’m in the wrong because my friends are both in really bad places.
One of my friends is a pill addict, and the other is dealing with things at home that are really rough. They text me CONSTANTLY, 10 messages back to back spamming me about how hard their life is but none of them take the step to get better or get help. They complain all the time and I give them advice but all they do is shut me down. EVERY. SINGLE. TIME. I dont know what to do anymore and their draining me so much. Hanging out with them is so exhausting and I can’t even avoid one of them!! They’re at my house daily because my mom lets them over. Even if I say no and I feel like I can’t escape. I wanna drop them both but that’d be so wrong.

I look at it from their side, addiction is hard and being stuck at a place you hate isn’t fun either. I was an opiate addict for a looonggg time but I’m also recovering and don’t wanna constantly hear about things I would love to go back to. I give them both advice all the time and I’m never rude to them but I cannot take this anymore, so I just stopped replying to them. AITAH?