I am a 28 year old female married to a 29 year old male. My husband wants me to stop smoking entirely. To keep it brief, we are currently separated and he has moved into his parents who are anti-ganjaing. I still live in our home. I have known him since we were 15 and he is who introduced me to it. Our whole marriage up until he moved out, was partaking as well but just not as much as me. Since he has been with his parents, he all of a sudden wanted me to stop because he has. He does have a son (9) with another woman and is going through legal battles because of a whole different story. She required he pass a test. So, okay, yes. You should stop smoking, but I was not required to take a test. I told him that while the children are in our care, I would only do it after bedtime in the garage. My husband also has (what I think) a slight alcohol problem. He also smokes cigarettes and vapes. I only have MAYBE 2 drinks once every two weeks unless I’m on vacation lol. So he technically has 3 “vices”, used to have 4. Where I have 1 and at most 2. My activities do not prohibit me from taking care of myself, my family, and being really freaking good at my job! It also does not break me financially when I buy it because I plan for it. Even with all of this, he still says that I should completely stop and if I don’t, then I’m choosing that over our marriage. Would you stop?