I (23m) am a graduate student. For housing I am subletting from a group of college seniors (21-22m) who are on the swim team together. I found them through Facebook.

I am openly gay and my housemates are well aware of this. It came up in conversation on day 1. No one had any sort of issue with it, though all of them identify as straight.

I feel like I fell into a gay man's dream, as all of these attractive swimmers walk around the house in nothing but underwear all the time and think nothing of it. Let's just say I enjoy the view. I never tell them that, never remark on it, just keep these thoughts to myself lol.

But the other day I was telling my friend about it, and she said it's not fair to them that I'm not telling them. They should have the chance to cover up if I'm objectifying them. I tell her that would make it weird, and it's not like I'm doing anything; I can't help what I find attractive. Am I as big an AH as my friend is saying or am I correct here?