📝 AITAH for not texting my gf I was gonna be longer?

By Free-Owl4123 • Score: 0 • April 19, 2025 4:02 AM


So some context, I (28M) and my gf (29F) normally play on the Xbox and sit in calls after work but bi weekly I play dnd (dungeons and dragons) and she’s aware that I’m in it, and our games normally run 7pm-10pm est. I texted her when I got home and made food to let her know I love her and will call her after the game. She was expecting a call around 10pm from me so we can do whatever but we didn’t end up finishing till 15 till midnight. When I finally do call I’m met with short responses and gruntled hmm and cools. I tried to see what was wrong but she refused to tell me anything straight forward but we’ve been together long enough that I know what she’s feeling and thinking. I apologize that I didn’t send a message letting her know it’ll be later and she said she was tired and ready to go to bed. Rn we are in call and she’s muted as I lay here feeling guilty. AITAH?

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