My MIL is wanting our 1 year old (14 months) to sleep over night at her house. Some context as to why I don’t want her to, though that reason should be good enough. She has previously lost my trust in her by allowing my daughter to push a rocking chair under her supervision, as she was just learning to stand. She unfortunately fell as banged her head and split it open, blood flowing everywhere. After this happened my MIL laughed it off saying “all kids get hurt”. So if this happened while she was at her house overnight what would she do? She also never asks before giving her any food infront of us, when she was 8 months old she handed her a bowl of whole shreddies cereal, and my daughter wasnt eating foods like that yet which could have been a chocking hazard. She said she would be sleeping in the hallway in a play pen… which would throw her sleep off completely, she won’t fall asleep like that.

AITAH here for feeling this way?

She never messages or calls me to see how my kids are doing, will just go through her son (my bf). She has messaged him that he shouldn’t ask me if it’s okay since it’s his baby too and should be able to do as he pleases with her. It’s ridiculous how she could possibly think that he is going to take her even though I don’t agree with it and do it anyways.