I 26m have been dating my lady 24f for about 5 years. And i love her dearly. And we have had sex numerous times. Sometimes with protection and sometimes without. After awhile we just went without protection for and I got accustomed to it. Something about it just felt more intimate to me and not having to put the intimacy on hold to grab and put one on was nice. Maybe a month ago, she wanted start have sex with just condoms. Of course I protested but she brought up some good reasons and I respected her wishes and agreed to it. And to be honest it just doesn’t excite me anymore. Its been times where I could tell where things would lead to and restrain myself and then the moment passes and it just doesn’t feel the same. Yes the feeling of not having protection is great but i just hate how it kills how spontaneous things felt.I have brought up how I felt about it numerous times and she gets irritated every time I bring it up. Now she gotten to the point of asking if we can. I still love her with all my heart and it doesn’t change how I feel about her but now i just genuinely don’t want do it anymore. So AM I AN ASSHOLE?