By Neither-Ninja-4473 • Score: 93 • April 14, 2025 4:45 PM
My husband and I were invited to go to a concert by a couple of my coworkers. It’s not the kind of music I would normally listen to but my husband said he liked that band and thought it would be fun to go. We don’t get to go out just the 2 of us for stuff like this because we have a 16 month old daughter so I thought it would be a fun date night to get out and arrange a babysitter. I got all dressed up and had my mom come over to watch our daughter and do dinner and bedtime with her at our house. I was actually having a really great time at the concert and thought my husband was too. We really enjoyed the first 3 bands but when the headliner came out he said he thought they sucked compared to the others and wanted to leave. I was super caught off guard because I thought we were having a fun night out and said I wanted to stay but I could tell that annoyed him so after another song or 2 it just wasn’t enjoyable for me anymore knowing my husband was going to be in a bad mood the rest of the time so I told my coworkers we were leaving early. I got super annoyed at him because I feel like he was being so childish to just want to leave because he didn’t enjoy the band. This was our night out and after getting dressed up and arranging the babysitter and paying for the tickets just to leave because you didn’t like the band was so stupid in my opinion and really just ruined our night out. Anyways, he ended up getting really upset with me that I didn’t want to go when he suggested it and was mad at me for being mad at him for ruining our night. He made a huge deal about how he shouldn’t have to stay somewhere if he’s not enjoying it even if I’m enjoying it and he said that if it was me wanting to leave early he would have done it for me. Even though we DID leave early. This may be a really silly post compared to a lot of other people’s AITAH posts but I’m still pretty peeved. And I don’t get why he’s so upset at me. Was I in the wrong to want to stay when he wasn’t having a good time even though I told him I was having fun? When he left for work this morning he didn’t even come in to say goodbye. So he must be pretty upset with me.
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