📝 AITAH for not wanting to massage my boyfriend?

By Gingerwafflee • Score: 2 • April 8, 2025 2:42 PM


It genuinely hurts my hands so much and I don’t like giving them at all. He is ALWAYS complaining about a certain part of his body hurting and asking for a massage and it’s to the point it’s annoying. Like since the start of our relationship he asks literally daily and at first i didn’t mind it even though it hurt my hands but now I just don’t want to. He stands at work all day and just talks to customers and my job is much more physically demanding and you don’t see me complaining. And it’s always right after i get back from work and want to relax or when we wake up. Like damn we just got up you haven’t even said good morning. I dunno if I am being a dick or a bad girlfriend I just hate the constant asking and the constant complaining about something always hurting so badly. Like why haven’t you bought a massager yourself if it hurts so bad??

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