I (18F) have recently been fighting with my older brother (23M) over… video games.

My older brothers and I used to play video games all the time when we were younger. A few years ago he moved all the way across the country. For a while we played most nights however, recently I have no interest in doing so. Actually not so recently it’s been a while but I had just played to make him happy. He tends to get really mad with me and/or my other brother (21M) when we say no so, I just dealt. Now, I have recently moved out, now on my own. I have a full time job plus a part time job, I’m busy almost everyday. When I’m not busy I tend to hang out with friends in person or my other siblings. My interest in video games has also changed, I like games I can play by myself and go at my own pace. He likes those scary multiplayer games, he wants to try new ones all the time. Anyways I feel guilty saying no now, he tells me how sad it is when we don’t play. He’s sad we don’t see each other anymore which is obviously mutual but, I have no interest in playing with him. Tbh when we do play he always says something that fucks it all up. Things about me or my sexuality or just political things we don’t agree on. It’s not fun anymore and I don’t want to play. AITAH for saying no? Should I just deal because he is family?