Me (f24) and my bf (m26) have been together for almost a year even though we have known each other and been dating on and off for almost 3 years.

The relationship itself has been perfect in every single way. He treats me well and put us first but… We have two major issues rn and i don’t know how to deal with them bc I feel in my soul that I am not in the wrong here.

So, the first issue we currently deals with is his trust issues. He thinks I was with another guy in between dating him, he says he got proof of it but I HAVE NOT! He simply won’t believe me. And I think that is HIS issue, if it is in the past, it’s in the past, why need to bring that up every argument?

Second issue, oh god. Here is the big one. He is missing his single life and is sad that he didn’t get time to explore that side in his life more. He claims that he doesn’t have any interest in cheating or being with other girls because he loves me so much and saying that it isn’t on the map to break up bc I am the love of his life. BUT WHY does he miss the feeling of “What could happen?” Like flirting with someone and have that feeling of maybe something could happen. He misses that. The feeling of not being in the relationship cage…

When he told me that, I lost it. I was so mad and started crying hysterically. So now I am insecure. He thinks I am overreacting and that it isn’t a big deal.

I should maybe tell you all that he also said. “It would be nice with an open relationship but only if I could do things and you couldn’t. Because I think you would do that kind of stuff with less thought behind it.” I mean what?

So AITAH?