I 28, have been with my bf 28, for over a year. I first enjoyed this relationship for how laid back and sweet he was. I have had a history of relationships ending because my ex’s would over sexualise and become very controlling over time.

Recently I have noticed we can no longer do romantic things without him touching private parts or trying to take it to a sexual place. I normally shut this down multiple times a day because otherwise it would be me having to participate multiple times a day and that’s too much for me.

Yesterday due to doing laundry I had to wear shorts and an oversized top. Since then he has not stopped touching and grabbing at private parts. I am not feeling well at the moment and it’s driving me insane. I have voiced it multiple times and he just goes back to doing the same.

I tried to take a nap to feel better, he joined me and I asked that we just hug while I nap, he said sure. He immediately went to touching my ass and vag, kissing my neck. I told him to stop and he just laid back and went on his phone.

I am really not sure about this, I love him but I feel so over sexualised constantly. I just want to be loved without being constantly groped.