Me (18f) and my boyfriend (19m) have been together for 2 and a half years now. At the start of the relationship everything was great. He flirted, got me gifts randomly, opened doors for me and actually wanted my company.

As of maybe the past year and a half or so he's stopped doing the little things like opening doors for me and holding my hand in public, he's always on his phone watching videos whenever I ask him to come with me to a shop or help me out or run errands. He will not listen to me When I ask him nicely to do simple things when we are in public. When we go out with friends he doesn't care to check up on me at all and will usually just leave me in the car while he messes around with his friends outside and will barely talk to me.

When I get home I sometimes will want to call him to talk for a while, simple request right? Wrong. He always has an excuse as to why he can't call me and then will always without fail be playing a game with his friends on a party YELLING while telling me his parents are sleeping so he can't talk to me. (We don't live together yet so we have to compromise) .

Whenever I bring up these issues he will usually dodge it all or take it as a personal attack and then not do anything to change his actions. Tonight was my breaking point I told him exactly how he made me feel and how hard it is to keep on like this every day, week etc and it's draining me completely.

I genuinely need advice because I can't tell if I'm overreacting or if he's doing it for a reason. AITAH?