I can't even look or talk to him because I feel so upset for him using his dollars to support elonia. I know he's "family" but I cannot get over it. My husband says I'm being unreasonable because we can afford to choose another car besides a Tesla because we make more money. But I said there are other electric cars out there that are just as affordable. Plus BIL chooses not to work so I feel like if it were really a cost thing why not get a job. Hubby said I need to get over it bc he's family. AITAH?