By Antique_Collar_6636 • Score: 5 • April 15, 2025 7:28 AM
I 17(F) have been dating my boyfriend (17M) for 2 years. He had to move to a different country due to situation in our home country half a year ago. I moved 2 years ago, so we have been long distance. Now we live in neighboring countries and see each other once in 2 weeks. So basically he has been living with his godmother (38F) since November, as she was willing to help him move and get a better life. She has 4 children (all boys). He immediately started working and they had an agreement - he pays her quarter of his salary and buys food (bread, meat, cheese… etc). And for the first two months he was quite happy. There were no issues with this woman and she was kind and supportive. But in January everything changed. We were in the middle of the call when she rushed to his room shouting how he ruined her life and so on. He was shocked, as well as I, so he talked to her and turned out that the money he gives her is not enough and the food is bad. My boyfriend suggested paying more and buying more food but she refused and cursed at him and we didn’t understand anything. And after this everything went downhill. She everyday called his parents and complained to them, even though nothing was wrong and no one, including his parents, seemed to notice the problem. He continued helping her, buying food, helping with chores. While we are chatting with him on the phone, I can hear her shouts and yells every time, and the worst part - she behaves the same with her children. She beats them, yells and so on. My boyfriend has never been in such environment so it surely affected his mental and physical health, because everyday he came from work - there was a scandal. I am not eager to plunge into details, but this scandals were extremely bad. But the last straw was a couple of weeks ago, when she called his mother and cursed her, called her names, than called my bf much worse names, and even told him that I (though we have never met) am a sl*t and using him and she wishes i wouldn’t be with him. It has blown me away. My boyfriend shouted at her and immediately started looking for a place to move out. He wanted to do it when he turns 18, because he wanted to rent a flat on his own, but it seems that he can’t wait for so long. He had found a place in 2 weeks, as his coworker helped him and moved there. But she continued to terrorize him with messages and blackmailing with stuff about falsely reporting him to the police for violence (what the hell?). My boyfriend lost nearly 10 pounds and was even prescribed meds because of his mental state. He even lived for a couple of weeks with me during that time, but he needed to work (these were his words) so it wasn’t for long. So I was furious. My parents and his parents were supporting him, but for me support wasn’t enough. I needed something worse for what she had done to him. I am not a kind of person to be petty and wanting revenge, but this time it was different. So I asked my bf to send me all the messages by her, and it was clever of me to record some of her assaults to my boyfriend and her own children. I didn’t tell anyone what I was going to do, because I didn’t want to cause trouble for anyone else. So I knew where she worked and they had a website. I created a new email account, and made an anonymous report about her inappropriate behavior with her children/ my boyfriend. Of course I have attached every proof I have and in 4-5 hours I received a response. Turns out, according to my bf’s parents words, she had been complaining to the other employees about how my boyfriend is ruining her life, beating her and abusing… I had no words. The boss didn’t want any drama, as she isn’t really irreplaceable employee so she got fired. And she has been crying non stop and posting stuff about life being unfair to her and calling my boyfriend’s parents to complain. They blocked her. I personally feel a bit bad about her, but on the other hand I won’t let her disrespect my boyfriend and his family. So AITAH?
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