Im gonna crash tf out here. Theres this guy i became long distance friends with from this app. He lives overseas and we would talk alot sometimes and sometimes not at all cuz I was busy. He would get upset when i wouldn’t talk to him. Early on we did also sext and stuff. And the second week of us talking he told me he really liked me and asked if a relationship could work between us two. I said u live so far so no, i dont see it working out. Anyways we proceeded being friends and would call for a 2-3 hours almost every few days, he was pretty nice, i would tell him everything and he would listen to me, i even cried on the phone to him. He was also really supportive and stuff.

When we initially became friends i regret sexting him and conversing with him in a sexual manner because later on in our friendship he would ask for certain things in that context or express he was horny for me and although i would say no he would moan and groan and i think i felt obligated so i would give into whatever he asked. However he never made me cum and thats mostly why i lost sexual interest in him altogether. He would compliment me alot and i feel like i liked that attention too so Id give in. But i never felt good doing it especially after.

I would tell him anything and everything as a friend but he would get jealous when id talk about my ex or guy friends. I also hate that he told his mom about me (as friends) cuz she and his sisters added me on ig (it just seemed like his mom thought something was going on between us). He also told me he doesnt have any girl friends and just goes to work and home and im the only person he talks to or can talk to about anything.

Fast forward now, i kinda stopped talking to him and other friends cuz there has been alot going starting around last month. My dad had gotten sick and and would feel weak and always looked sad, my dads brother also passed away and overall i was being strong for my family but would feel so sad inside even now. I distanced myself from friends and him cuz i didnt wanna burden anyone talking about “sad things” but also im the eldest daughter in my house so its natural for me to isolate and deal with problems on my own. I had told this situation to this guy on text that i dont feel like talking cuz i feel depressed, dad thing and uncle passing away and that i just was busy (school + work). He would keep keep saying oh i feel like there’s something else and i told him there’s nothing else thats it and hed just be like oh. Quite frankly i dont think he gives a f that my dad is sick and stuff or that im depressed esp cuz he doesnt like/speak to his dad. Im saying this because of his lame responses. Like a few weeks after he asked me the same thing “whats wrong, why dont you talk to me etc” and i told him same stuff and he was just like oh that, like oh so u forgot whats really bothering me and really u just wanna talk. Hes been so passive aggressive and usually im able to talk to him about anything but when I tell him the truth that my dad is unwell his only response is “Oh”, “Oh that” or hell ask how my dad is ill say “fine” and then he moves on to the next thing

I lowkey resent him cuz of how invested he is in my life and that he’s friends with me thinking something could happen between us two. I dont like him romantically and i told him from the start nothing could happen. I regret sexting him, i regret telling him about my tiktok acc. Cuz his last msg was i watched all ur tiktoks after being passive aggressive AF for me not talking to him (on call).