so my friend enzo and my gf ivory had a disagreement and argued and whatever, then my gf was like “dni cuntzo” and he was like “i can still interact because my name is enzo and not cuntzo” and she said it again and he was like “not until you call me enzo” and they went back and forth. all he wanted her to say was “dni enzo” and then he’d stop interacting, in my opinion both of them are wrong, but she came to me later on and said “tell enzo he emotionally abused me” and we had a disagreement about that because i don’t think it’s abuse, but is it abuse? am i wrong for not believing it’s abuse?