I(m28) was talking to my more than friend(f28) who we'll call Alyssa on FT and we were talking about me coming over tomorrow. I said for sure by the afternoon but maybe in the morning Alyssa said okay. The call was a spicy one by the end and Alyssa "went to bed" so I was gung ho about going over didn't sleep and was messaging her with no replies but I didn't expect any. Morning comes and I try and message Alyssa but she lets her phone die all the time so I do some insta carting around her area waiting for her to get up, it's okay sometimes she sleeps in. I got tired of dashing so I went to Alyssas house at noon, she lets me in but says someone is here with her. I know we're not exclusive but that feels weird to me. He leaves around 1:30 as it takes him that long to wake up. She was upset with me for coming over without confirmation and has now blocked me AITAH?