Okay, so this whole situation is really complicated. I, 16 F have been completely in love with this guy I dated earlier this year for months, 16 M, he broke up with me but we got close again more recently, I asked him to prom and he denied. So I went and asked this other guy to prom, let's call the guy I was supposed to go to prom with H, and the guy I've been borderline in love with A. So H and I decided to go to prom together, but I made it incredibly clear that it was just prom, and I didn't like him romantically and I am still into A. Well, last Thursday A kissed me and we started dating again, but he still wanted me to go to prom with H because he wanted to keep our relationship a secret because we go to a very small school and people get super involved which is what broke us up last time. H's little sister goes to my school so I couldn't tell H that I'm dating A again because that would make it so our entire school knows. Well, on Monday I lost my v*rginity to A, it was amazing and so perfect and sweet, and I told my best friend about it, who told H's best friend, who told H. And now their entire school knows I had sex and hates me for "cheating on H", but we weren't even in a talking stage at that point and I made it clear I didn't like him or want to be with him. I suppose I could've waiting till after prom to do it with A, but he's my BOYFRIEND and I feel like I should have the freedom to do what I want with him when the other guy was already aware of my stance. Even my best friend says I'm in the wrong but I honestly don't think I am, and I think it's really immature and petty that he told his entire school, that I don't even GO TO, and a ton of people I don't know that I "cheated on him". And now people who don't even know me or who tf I am other than this hate me and are spreading the rumors around the entirety of our grade at their school. So, AITAH?