I 23F and my friend 22F have known each other for 5+ years. About 5 months ago she completely ghosted me but kept talking to our combined friends. They couldn’t find out what was going on. I had caught her cheating on her boyfriend and told her that was not ok in our last interaction. Last night however, I ran into her in the bar bathroom. I went up to her and asked her how she was and that I was concerned. She looked me dead in the eyes and said I molested her and I was a predator I was BAFFLED I asked her to explain and when this happened? She called me guilty and a predator for asking those questions. She then told me one night I grabbed her boob and went “honk” and that I assaulted her She was using a lot of different words for this event. She told my friend this happened in a car and told me this happened at my house…she’s never been to my house. Anyways, I was really hurt because I have had experience with sexual trauma and I would NEVER want to make her feel that way. I have no memory of this event and she said I was super drunk. I just don’t know what I could’ve done that and I KNOW I would never do that. AITAH for going up to her?