I (28m) have a gf (24f) of 1 year who follows over 4k guys on TikTok and has a fake Instagram with almost 2k guys some are OF creators, others just random men with small followings. I found out by snooping, and it made me uncomfortable, especially because she looks at them even when I’m around. I brought it up and told her it feels disrespectful, and at first, she acted like he understood. But recently, she’s been asking me multiple times to start an OF, and that really crossed a line for me. I told her I want a traditional family, and doing something like that doesn’t align with my values. When I brought up how all of this made me feel like she doesn’t value or respect me, she just laughed it off and said “that’s not disrespectful” with a tone that made me feel like my feelings didn’t matter. I was being serious, and she acted like it was no big deal, even though she was the one asking why I was upset.

P.S im completely ok with porn I’m just complaining about the excessive amount of things she’s doing in front of me that is hurting and apparently she can’t see it.