The other day after my husband came from work, I left to visit my brother and told him to tidy up the toys, we have a 22m baby, we wore away for 3h, when I came back he was playing at his playstation and the toys wore is the same spot. He didn't do anything but play at the playstation. It was already night and I needed to eat and tidy up, and put baby to bed. I told him multiple times that cleaning up in the evening it really helps my mental health, as I don't have nothing to do in the morning, but I don't think he understands. He's the tipe of person that leaves everything to the next day and gets overwhelmed after. I'm not saying that he doesn't do anything, he cooks when he's off from work, he cleanes when I ask him and when I don't. I think my only problem is that he prioritised playing when the baby is asleep or when we leave. I told him that he needs to do the work and relax after, because if he gets overwhelmed , I get overwhelmed and anxious. He's saying that I stress him by telling him what to do all the time, but I told him that if he would do the stuff I wouldn't tell him anything.For context , he works Wednesday to Saturday, something on Sunday too 6:00 to 17:00. So AITAH for telling him he doesn't help enough around the house?