My (27F) husband (30M) is always at his computer day and night and rarely goes out unless it's for work meetings (he works a hybrid job). I am 22 weeks pregnant with our first child.

Since a month ago, he has been increasingly playing games more and more and rarely talks to me anymore. If he does, it's always related to groceries or food. He doesn't seem to care about my feelings anymore. He doesn't even sleep in our room, it's on the couch in his gaming room. It's also a mess in there, trash all over the floor. I can hear him walking on it whenever he moves around in there.

Last night, I decided to finally talk to him about it after he came into the kitchen to get food. I told him how I felt, and about the fact he only cares about work and video games now.. He told me about his anxiety and that I make him "Anxious", telling me my growing stomach makes him uncomfortable.

He went back into his mancave and locked the door like usual. I couldn't bare the emotions so I went into our bedroom and cried into the pillow. I heard him video chatting an hour later, probably with friends. I couldn't hear what he was saying because it sounded muffled. I kind of think I shouldn’t of talked about his hobby that way at all and this is my fault. I sometimes think maybe I did something wrong, like deciding to have a child, and he just agreed with it at the time. I genuinely don't know.